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BREAKUP in a Box

Learn why heartbreak hits like trauma, then get the tools, rituals, and nervous system resets to calm your mind, cut the cord, and come back to yourself fast.

4
Modules
19
Lessons
A Letter for Module 1

Hi BB,

What you are holding is not just information. It is initiation. Each page, reflection, and practice inside this workbook is an invitation to meet yourself in a deeper way than before. These exercises are not assignments to complete. They are doorways into remembering who you are beneath the ache.

When you breathe with the lessons, your body begins to trust safety again. When you write, you reclaim the narrative of your own heart. When you move through the practices, you rewire the very patterns that once held you hostage. This is what healing looks like. Not the absence of pain, but the return of aliveness.

The work and the workbooks are companions, not commandments. You do not have to rush or perfect them. Let the insights come as they wish to. Let the practices meet you where you are. Healing happens in spirals, not straight lines. Each time you return to this material, it will meet you at a new layer of understanding, because you will have changed.

You are doing sacred work. Learning the language of your body, restoring your nervous system, and choosing love that no longer hurts. Trust that this process is rewriting everything that once made you doubt your worth.

Revisit this when you need to. Rest when you must. Remember that your wholeness was never lost. Only waiting to be reclaimed.

With love and respect for your becoming,
Dr. Sheila Marie Campbell DACM LAc

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Begin Here
3 Lessons · Foundation
Foundation
Welcome Letter from Dr. Sheila
5 min · A note to open your journey
About Dr. Sheila
8 min · Meet your guide
Baseline Assessment
20 min · Locate where you are today
1
The Science of Letting Go
3 Lessons
A. Introduction
Framework and foundations of healing
B. Mending the Heart
Emotional and physiological impacts of heartbreak
C. Cord Cutting: All Relationships
Severing unhealthy attachments and reclaiming energy
2
Breaking the Break Up Cycle
4 Lessons
Module 2 Overview
Introduction to breaking the cycle
A. Recognizing Patterns
Identifying recurring behaviors and dynamics
B. Queendom
Establishing and ruling your boundaries with confidence
C. Masculine and Feminine Energy
Balancing energies within and in relationship
3
Redesigning Your Love Life
5 Lessons
Module 3 Introduction
Redesigning what love looks like for you
A. Clarity and Vision
Defining your romantic future and personal goals
B. Emotional Hostage vs. Love
Differentiating emotional dependency from genuine love
C. Heart Protector
Chinese medicine techniques for emotional resilience
D. Character Witness
Assessing character and intentions over time
4
Integrating Everything
4 Lessons
Module 4 Overview
Bringing it all together
A. Power of 100%
Full commitment to your growth
B. Mastering Emotions
Tools for regulation and self-awareness
C. Integration
Your personal action plan
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BREAKUP in a Box · Foundation
Foundation

Baseline Assessment

The Starting Point. Not a test. A snapshot.

Hi BB,

Before we begin, I want you to take a moment to arrive. You are standing at the threshold of something important, a return to yourself.

The questions in this assessment are not here to measure your worth or progress. They are here to help you locate yourself in this moment. Healing starts with awareness. Before we can release, we must first see. Before we can rise, we must root.

Every answer you write will become a map of where your energy has been living. Your patterns, your stories, your body, your emotions, all of them have been doing their best to protect you. This assessment is your chance to meet them with honesty and compassion, without judgment or rush.

If you feel resistance or emotion as you move through these questions, that is good. It means you are touching something real. Take your time. Breathe between the answers. Let your truth surface slowly.

There is no grade to earn here, only self-understanding. This is not about fixing yourself. It is about remembering yourself. By the time you finish this course, you will see how much shifts when you choose to be fully present with your own becoming.

You are not starting over. You are starting deeper.

With love and respect for your process,
Dr. Sheila Marie Campbell DACM LAc

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Part 1

Emotional Awareness

Take a moment to explore your emotional landscape with gentle curiosity. Notice what is present without judgment.

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Express them
Suppress them
Intellectualize them
A mix of all three
Part 2

Nervous System and Body Awareness

Your body holds wisdom. Listen closely.

Almost always
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never
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Daily
A few times a week
Rarely
Almost never
Part 3

Mental Patterns

Notice these patterns with compassion. Awareness is the first step toward freedom.

Constant
Frequent
Occasional
Rare
Part 4

Energy and Environment

Your environment holds energy. Notice what needs to shift.

Heaviness
Hope
Anxiety
Peace
Something else
Part 5

Relationship Awareness

Take an honest look at the roles and patterns you have carried. This reflection opens the door to transformation.

Part 6

Self-Compassion and Readiness

There is no wrong answer here, just truth.

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A Moment of Presence

Place your hand on your heart and take three slow breaths. Feel the warmth of your own touch. Feel the rise and fall of your chest.

I am here
I am ready to see myself clearly
I am ready to heal

Whisper these words to yourself. Let them land gently in your heart. This is your truth in this moment.

Save Your Starting Point

This assessment captures where you are today. You will return to these same questions after the course to witness how much has shifted.

Your Baseline is Saved

You have arrived. Your starting point is preserved. Now the real work begins. Return here at any time to reflect on how far you have come.

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BREAKUP in a Box · Module 1: The Science of Letting Go
Mending the Heart

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Module 1 · Lesson B
Notes from Dr. Campbell
Dr. Sheila Marie Campbell, DACM LAc
Your nervous system is not overreacting after a breakup. It is doing exactly what it was designed to do when a primary attachment bond is severed. The same neural circuits that register physical pain activate when you lose a relationship. The path forward is regulation, not suppression.
Practices for This Lesson
Try the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise before sleep tonight
Notice your breath 3 times today without trying to change it
Journal: what does safety feel like in your body right now?
Walk outside for 10 minutes with no phone
Downloads
Nervous System Regulation Workbook
PDF · 2.1 MB
Somatic Practice Guide
PDF · 890 KB
Guided Meditation Audio
MP3 · 14 MB
How did this lesson land for you?
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NüCHI Guide
BREAKUP in a Box
NüCHI
Welcome, Sheila. I am here with you inside this curriculum. Ask me anything about this lesson, what is coming up for you, or how the material connects to your own life.
NüCHI is reflecting…
Inner Work

Soul Map

This is your living document. It grows as you grow. Only you can see this.

Soul Lessons

What you believe you are here to learn in this lifetime.

What I Am Working Through

Active wounds and the places inside you that are still healing. Private. Sacred. Yours.

Repetitive Themes

Patterns you keep noticing across relationships, work, and life. Rate how strongly each one showed up today.

My Boundaries

The lines you are learning to hold. Rate how well you held each one today.

Weekly Practice Plan

Tell your guide what you are working on. You will receive 3 specific, manageable practices with homework assignments to move the needle this week.

Your guide is building practices rooted in TCM, somatic healing, and the NüCHI curriculum…

Enter something you are working through above to receive your three practices.
Soul Guide

Talk to Your Guide

Your NüCHI guide is trained in Traditional Chinese Medicine, energy medicine, and the full NüCHI curriculum. Bring anything from your Soul Map here.

NüCHI Soul Guide
TCM · Energy Medicine · NüCHI Curriculum
NüCHI
I am here with you inside your Soul Map. I am trained in Traditional Chinese Medicine, Five Element theory, meridian psychology, and the full NüCHI curriculum. Bring me anything from what you have written here — a soul lesson that feels stuck, a wound you are sitting with, a pattern you want to understand more deeply. We can look at it through the lens of Chinese medicine, energy, and healing.
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The Cleansing Ritual

A sacred 6-module journey through prayer, fire, water, earth, and gratitude. A complete energetic cleansing system rooted in ancient practice and spiritual science.

6
Modules
18
Lessons
▶
Course Overview
Start here
The Cleansing Ritual Outline
Overview · Begin here
1
Unlock The Power Of Prayer
1 Lesson
Unlock The Power Of Prayer
Understanding prayer as a technology of transformation
2
Crafting Your Prayer
2 Lessons
Crafting Your Prayer
Building your personal prayer framework
Sample Opening Prayer
A guided example to anchor your practice
3
Making Agreements
1 Lesson
Making Agreements
Setting sacred intention and spiritual contracts
4
The Cleansing Ritual
6 Lessons
The Cleansing Ritual Educational Video
Full ritual walkthrough
Ritual Supply List
Everything you need before you begin
Safety First
Grounding protocols and physical safety
Defining Your Zones
Setting up your sacred space
The Fire Ritual
Working with fire for transformation and release
How to Work With Resins
Copal, frankincense, myrrh and their properties
5
Elevating With Gratitude
2 Lessons
Elevating With Gratitude
The science and spirit of gratitude practice
Water Ritual
Working with water for emotional clearing
6
Closing Ceremony
5 Lessons
Closing Ceremony
Sealing your ritual and integrating the work
Ritual Salt Returning to Water
Dissolving what was held, returning to flow
Ritual Resins Back to Earth
Completing the elemental cycle
The Cleansing Ritual In Action
Full demonstration of the complete ritual
So What Happens Next?
Integration, continuation, and next steps

Daily Check-In

A few minutes for yourself. Body, mind, spirit, and stars.

Today's Cosmic Weather
Your reading for today

Consulting the stars for your chart…

How are you feeling right now?

One word for how you land in this moment

Heavy

Okay

Hopeful

Good

Glowing

Body Wisdom · TCM Check-In

Your body speaks in Qi, Blood, and organ patterns. Listen daily.
Sleep quality (1-10)
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Energy / Qi level
Depleted
Low
Balanced
Strong
Wired
Bowel movement today
Regular
Constipated
Loose
None yet
Digestion & appetite
Good
Sluggish
Bloated
No appetite
Overeating
Ear, Nose, Throat (Lung and Kidney meridians)
Clear
Sore throat
Sinus congestion
Ear ringing
Post-nasal drip
Dry mouth
Cough
Body sensations & pain
Tight chest
Headache
Neck / shoulder tension
Low back
Belly pain
Fatigue
Restlessness
Nothing significant
Track menses today
Cycle day
Flow
None
Light
Medium
Heavy
Clotting
Symptoms
Cramping
Bloating
Breast tenderness
Mood shifts
Fatigue
Cravings
Clear

Emotional Landscape

What is asking for your attention today

Gratitude & Intention

Where you place your attention, energy follows
Three things I am grateful for today
1The way the morning light came through the window today
2My body carrying me through another day

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Moon Rituals

Your month read back to you, and rituals built from what you have actually written. Drawn from your Soul Map, your boundaries and your check-ins. Your notebook is never read. Only you can see this.

This Month

 

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